I just love this gag from Castle:
It's beautiful when you look at yourself in the mirror and you like what you see.
Not because you are perfect or correspond to some stereotypes imposed by society, but just because you recognize your own unique beauty.
And yet you don't take it seriously.
An healthy, light and funny self-esteem is very attractive, isn't it?
How do you like yourself?
And what is the female equivalent for ruggedly handsome?